To Afridi, with Love [by Maheen Sadiq]

I came across this article (which is actually a letter) today on Facebook via a friend (J.J.) of mine. I found it really touching. Such lovely words. It really is worth sharing.

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To Afridi, with Love ~ by Maheen Sadiq

There’s a lot to be said about the cricket tournament, especially our match against India. And it has a lot more to do with Misbah-ul-Haq and Umar Gul’s bad luck, and Sachin Tendulkar’s good fortune.

Cricket speaks to our nation in a way our government never has.

And Shahid Afridi addressed the nation in a way our president never has – unselfish, genuine, modest. So when Afridi apologized to Pakistan, millions listened and were humbled by the gesture. Our eyes filled with tears and our hearts with love and strange kind of sorrow. Shahid Afridi, you need not apologize to the nation. We are proud of you and our entire cricket team! You didn’t bring back the cup, but any excitement, any happiness, any hope that Pakistanis have felt in the past few months is because of your brilliance. We’ve been hearing a lot of “Pakistan needs something to celebrate,” but Continue reading

Was Just Thinking…

“Dil jaane mere saare bhed ye gehre,
kho gaye kaise mere sapne sunhare ..

Ye mere sapne, yehi to hain apne,
Mujhse judaa na honge inke ye saaye..

Kahin door jab din dhal jaaye…”

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O God, life and death are in your hands. I can’t ask for any of those two. But God, the only wish which I can ask for is that I am with my loved ones when I die.

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From my journal. Dated: 20.11.2010

Just a Thought

¦ Stop judging people. Stop judging anyone. As soon as you bring somebody into your head and start forming an essay about him/her – catch yourself. Essay is all about judging the other person. It disturbs. It disturbs you alone. So be wise and don’t do that. ¦

Instead devote sometime to improve yourself rather than finding out faults in others. That would be the best use of your time.

:)

Appreciation

I just read an email I had received today afternoon from one of my friends. I found it quite great and I thought that just forwarding it won’t be enough. So I decided to put it here, for everyone and also for me. :)

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Appreciation

This is a powerful message for our modern society.

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Just a Random Thought

I was studying, and out of sudden some thought came upon me (something always does ;) ). Just writing it here for fun.

You came…
“You” and “I’  became “we”,
You didn’t get something,
That’s what I think.
And now here I’m and there you are…
As if “we” never existed.
WEIRD. WEIRD. WEIRD.
P.S. – I haven’t given a second thought to what I’ve just written. LOL.

Sometimes you just write.

A Cup of Tea

Tea? No, I am definitely not going to talk about tea here. ;) What I’m gonna talk about is just a random feeling, something I am going through these days…, a nostalgia about sharing the Evening Tea with my family. I live in a hostel which really isn’t something new for me. It’s been plenty of years that I am living away from home. And I am not a kid anymore, so, keeping that fact in mind, I shouldn’t be mad about missing home or my family. I am not, of course. :) But still there is something which I miss the most- spending quality time with my parents. Though we talk over phone almost everyday, but phonic conversations can never replace those which happen face-to-face. Neither can the social networking sites or e-mails/chats.

Time changes so fast. Gone are those days when I used be at home all the time. I remember reading about people staying away from their families and how they miss the good times. I never gave it a thought then. I never actually felt that way. But, as has been said, we can’t feel what others feel until we go through what they are going through. Now, I can truly feel it.

Life is so easy and comfortable at home. Tough times can be experienced when we step out of the house and face the world. Alone. Of course, everyone someday or the other goes through this phase of life too, like I am going through right now. Both happy and tough. A learning process, that’s what life is. Anyways, coming back to what I was actually saying. I had never thought that I would someday be praying to God to bless me with some days where I can be with my family. Seriously, think about it, what will happen when I will be doing a job somewhere. I hope the situation won’t get worse. :)

It feels great whenever I think about my upcoming summer holidays, which I’ll be spending at home, and that too for two months. Surely, God is there. :) The last time I was at home for this long duration was two years ago. I know, there are people whose condition is even bad than mine.

Anyways, what I am desperately waiting for is the evening tea-time with my mom and dad. After five months! A priceless moment indeed. I wish such moments repeat more frequently in my and everyone’s life. God Bless.

Below are the lyrics of the song from movie “Mausam”, which conveys my nostalgic behaviour in a better way. This song is meant for those people who have gone too busy with their jobs and can’t find time for home and family.

“dil dhoondta hai, fir wahee fursat ke raat din

baithe rahe tasawwoor-ye-jaanaa kiye huye

jaadon ki naram dhoop aur aangan mein let kar

aankhon pe khinch kar tere aanchal ke saaye ko

aaundhe pade rahe kabhi karwat liye huye

yaa garmiyon ki raat jo poorawaaeeyaan chale

thandi safed chaadaro pe jaage der tak

taaron ko dekhte rahe chhat par pade huye

barfilee sardiyon mein kisi bhi pahaad par

waadee mein gunjate huye, khamoshiyaan sune

aankhon mein bheege bheege se lamhe liye huye”

Translation:

The heart once again yearns for those leisurely days and nights
When we could just sit back leisurely, and let our imagination wander

Relaxing on our back in the backyard, under the mild winter sun,
Coving our head with the shade of your shawl
And sometimes turning over and lying on our sides

Or, breezes may be blowing on summer nights
We would be keeping awake late into the night lying on cold white sheets,
gazing at the stars lying sprawled on the rooftop

During chilly winter on some hill,
We may be listening to stillness echoing through valleys
living misty moments through the eyes

:)

Let It Go

“How long will you bang against a wall?
You may begin to bleed, but the wall will never open up for you.

How long will you curse your luck
and wait under a mango tree
expecting oranges?
You may drop dead
but not a single orange
will drop from a mango tree.

What is, is.
What is not, is not.

Genius is in knowing
what to hold on and when to let go.”

“Frozen Thoughts”

“Existential Aloneness”

All relationships are only on the surface.
Deep inside you are always alone.

A thousand people may surround you;
yet, a part of you is always alone.
Even when you embrace your beloved,
a part of you is always alone.

You came into this world alone
and you will leave this world alone.

Liberation comes from knowing
‘Existential Aloneness’
is your true nature.

Relate from this space
and you will be dependable;
else you will be dependent.

“Frozen Thoughts”